How do I find my Twinflame?
A Twinflame is more than just a soulmate - they are a mirror of your soul, the other whole of your essence, the perfect reflection of who you truly are. Everyone has one but not all Twinflames reincarnate together physically- when they do, their connection is often both profoundly beautiful and deeply challenging. Their union is rarely just about romance — it serves a higher purpose that transcends the personal: to awaken, to heal, to transform, and to spread love in its purest form.
For me and Wendy, we knew from the very first day that we had a mission together. We were here to teach the world about unconditional love and self-love. That was our purpose — and we felt it with every fiber of our beings.
A Love Beyond the Physical
The Twinflame connection often arises in specific geographic regions, communities, or soul circles, and it always serves the purpose of love — as cliché as that might sound. It’s a love that defies logic. A love so deep, it feels like you could die with a smile on your face, just being next to them.
Even if your Twinflame isn’t physically with you in this lifetime, their energy lives within you. They are the living embodiment of unconditional love — the part of you that already feels whole, even in solitude. That’s the beautiful paradox: when you no longer seek love to fill a void, you become the very source of it — and that’s when you attract it in its highest form.
In fact, when Wendy and I first connected, we both had declared we were happy being single. We weren’t seeking a partner. We were fulfilled — and that wholeness is what made room for our soul-deep connection. From the beginning, we knew we had work to do: to create heart-centered change in the world and remind people that life, in its purest form, is love.
Calling in Your Twinflame
To call in your Twinflame, the journey begins within. You must first confront and heal your past wounds — your traumas, your shadows, the stories you've carried for too long. (See more in the Trauma Healing Zone.) When you release the weight of your past, you free yourself to live fully in the present. You realise you're already whole - nothing to prove, no one to chase. Just peace. Just presence.
In today’s world, we’re taught we aren’t enough — that we need to be more, do more, have more. But when you truly accept yourself, unconditionally and without judgment, everything changes. You no longer feel the need to perform, to impress, or to fit into someone else’s idea of who you should be.
And in that space of self-love, your Twinflame appears — because they are you. The closer you get to your truest, most authentic self, the easier it becomes to find them. They will reflect your energy, your truth, your wholeness.
The Free-Spirited Love
When you embody self-love, you enter a relationship without attachment to outcomes. You don’t need the other person to complete you — you are already whole. This creates a space of freedom, of ease. There are no games, no second-guessing, no ego battles. Just presence, peace, and the amplification of a love that is already overflowing within you.
This energy is magnetic. It’s healing. And when you both arrive in that space together, the vibration of your union raises the frequency of everyone around you. It’s love without condition, without title, without ego. Just pure being.
The Twinflame Path — Step by Step:
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Shadow Work – Heal your past and shift your perspective
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Clear the Ego – Release the need for control, identity, and external validation
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Discover Your Higher Purpose – Align with your soul mission
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Attract Your Twinflame – From a place of wholeness, not lack
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Amplify Your Energy – Elevate others by living in unconditional love
This is the path Wendy and I walked together. Our bond was, and still is, a testament to what love can truly be - not just for each other, but for the world.
And through her memory, I’ll keep walking this path.
For love. For truth. For all of us.
